CUCKOLDING-SISSY TYPE

For sure, women are essential to the scenario, but I'm suggesting the linkage is more complex than simple bisexuality. You'll hear cucks often talk about seeing a "real man" with their wives/girlfriends. What do we mean when we say something like that? I'm postulating we mean a proper/ideal male in terms of his masculinity, his healthy lust for women, his virility. By implication, the cuck doesn't feel like a "real man," he feels weaker, more impotent, and wants to submit. The more the bull asserts himself in a proper manly way, the more the cuck respects and desires him. And nothing demonstrates being a "real man" more than sexually pleasing women. And nothing is more profoundly dominant in an alpha male sense than "taking" a lesser man's woman. It all fits together.

I agree that femdom is in the mix, but I suspect it is a consequence more than a driver. Suppose she wanted to be with other submissive men because she enjoyed dominating them too. She would still be asserting her authority, but does that feel as sexy, or would you just be annoyed and jealous?

I think cuckolding is exciting precisely because she submits to the other man, even lets him do things to her she would never let you do, creating a hierarchy where he is dominant, she is in the middle, and you are at the bottom. I see it as yet another instance where the cuck is able to deny being gay because the woman serves as the insulation between him and the dominant man he secretly desires.

I can't speak for all cucks, but 90% I know or chat to often are bi. As a middle aged male, i've only had relationships with women, am very attracted to women, and constantly want to to put my cock in a pussy, but for shear ******* desire and lust, you put me on my knees in front of a big hard cock, black or white and i'll take that first before pussy everytime. I've never been attracted to a male like a gay male does, but my 40 year constant desire to suck cock has never waned to this day. As far as a wife 'forsing' her cuck to suck cock, I don't believe that at all, but sucking one in front of your wife gives you this inner freedom showing her the real you, and her being part of it, takes away the shame you may carry if you are/ were a closeted cocksucker.

I think you nailed it with your description of a cuckold sissy, with the exception that using the term "gay" really makes it a matter of fact label. I think the right description would be Bisexual. As we, as fetus's are all conceived female, and at a certain point in the pregnancy the mom gets a hormone push, and the babys chromosomes change to become male. If she doesn't, the baby remains female. IF, and if is a big word here....all people were 100% honest without fail, we would all admit to feeling a little bit of attraction for the same sex.

My first experience with a man was after my then-gf had feminized me. She transformed our sex life into a lesbian sex life and eliminated my penis from the equation. We both had strap ones to use on each other. When she was fucking me she would often tell me how it felt to have a real man doing those things to you, how it felt when he came in you, etc. we talked about it and I told her I wanted to know what it felt like to be with a real man. She told me she had someone in mind and would talk to them. A date was set, he came over and made me a woman that night. I experienced everything a woman does during sex.
When we were finished, she crawled into bed next to me and asked how it was. I confessed it was better than I imagined it could be. She asked how he was as a lover and not having anything to judge it by I told her he was wonderful. She then told me she thought I would say that since she had been seeing him for about a year at that point.
I was feminized, made love to like a woman by the man she had been cuckolding me with. I found out then I was a cuckold.

I have cuckolded my hubby throughout our marriage, with his bisexuality a big part of it. What I saw in him was a hunger for cock as an important part of his love of being my cuckold. When he did fuck me, it was much better if a man was in bed with us. When I decided to try black, I sent him first. He came home and confessed to being gay, which I suspected all along. It took a dominant black man to help hubby find himself. I do believe that he was born that way. Over the years we met quite a few bi men who confided in me that they fantasized about cock when they had sex with their wives.

IMHO the bisexual line runs the gambent from straight to gay, and many men who love/prefer cock tend to be more toward the gay side. My hubby is sexually gay but emotionally needs the romantic love of a woman. I have had sex with 5 gay men, all of whom got erections with me with my hubby there.

I think cuckolding is a celebration of the female beauty. We are cuckolds because we love to watch our beautiful wives enjoying their sex freely. Any of the cuckold men here could be gay if they wanted. Clearly, they live women.
Human sexuality is a lot more complex than what we can understand. I think human sexuality is the source of humanity, creativity, etc. Cuckolding is ita own thing and does not need explanation.

I am not a therapist. But I can speak of what I feel, think and believe about me. This is 100% honest as I have no worries of "exposing" myself to my public life.
I am only attracted to women. As a person that I would want to hold kiss touch smell brush against and anything to do with romance or friendship or love/dating. I have NONE of those feelings towards men in anyway. Now sexually, things get confusing.
If I was given a choice right now, have a great night of sex with a lil hot blonde...yes I am taking that offer, over any other choice. ANY choice. 1 on 1 her and I. Now sitting behind this computer, NUMBER 1 stimulant, is a BIG BLACK COCK... that same lil hot blonde fucking a white guy? nope, or just anything is a zero. The BBC is what turns me on here. What I have found is that here, I want to be that lil hot blonde sucking that BBC...Not so much that I want to be a sissy, but I think they are so lucky to get the BBC and turn the BBC on too. As a guy I cant turn a straight guy on? And gay guys want gay stuff,,,, I have sucked cock and I love it, I have eaten cum out of my wife's delicious pussy. I will do both again. I would love to have a BBC to suck off when he needed.
Gay is a straight out attraction for men, a desire to do all the things to and with them that I feel for women. I have a strong submissive streak. I am a bull with women, (8") and masculine, but have a submissive side orally. And I don't mind at all.

There is a concerning amount wrong with your post. It’s very brief, so I’m hoping you have left a lot out. If you want sustainable kink play, you need conversations before you begin these roles, discuss boundaries, safe words, and all that. There are plenty of podcasts, posts, munches, and local kink groups that can help. Consent is always required and blackmail is never acceptable and is considered sexual assault.

This doesn’t mean you can’t turn your hubby into your cock loving sub slut. You need to talk w him about it first. And then, you need to help prepare him! As said above, a fella just doesn’t take a 10” cock. You will need to train him, stretch him, peg him, or bring in a smaller guy to start. Make him train himself and send you pics during the day, wear a butt plug. There are plenty of fun ways to explore a dom/sub relationship. Is it full time or is it something you schedule? Can you make him wear a butt plug or your underwear to work, around the house…..? What is his reward for being your good slut? One example, if he wants to watch you play, then he must warm up your bull. Otherwise he has to wait outside and just listen
Have fun, just do it in a way that doesn’t destroy your relationship.
My background - I play as a dom bull for a hotwife and I’ve enjoyed being a sub for a BBC bull. I’ve enjoyed both rolls. Both took time and trust to explore.

Hey everyone! Just want to share my journey. Im not a great writer but I'll try my best.

Growing up i knew I was a freak. I always loved the idea of sharing my girlfriend. IDK just seemed so hot (still does).When I was a young I found out about milking the prostate like we all do lol. I would start masterbating while fingering myself. The first time was like an out of body experience. Of course when your young your insecure so I never talked about it or anything.

Fast foward. My now wife and I had been together about 2 years when I told her about my group sex fantasy. My luck she had the same fantasy! I think like most couples it started with looking for another girl and like most couples we found out that there isn't many girls out there. So we started looking for single men. Once we found a few guys we settled into a good grove.

About a year later she told me that her fantasy was a black man. She had been watching interracial porn and she thought it looked hot as fuck. I agreed. For whatever reason we had trouble finding someone. The first experience she had was not good. He was black but definitely not a BBC(we dont count that one) It took a while longer but we finally made it happen and WOW it was dream come true!

Anyway it was around this time I told my wife about how I liked my butt played with. She was very excited about this lol. She asked if she could peg me. I was definitely willing to try. The pegging experience was amazing! I came with no touch and all that. Truly amazing. Awhile later my wife and I did some MDMA. A crazy experience. But it was that night my wife told me her biggest fantasy was to see ME get fucked by BBC. Not gonna lie i was a little hesitant. I liked my but played with and getting pegged. But a real dick? Im a 6'4 275lbs alpha type guy. Im the boss at my job and just overall an alpha. I told her id think about it. I got to thinking about it and the idea became very hot to me.

I got on Grindr and would talk to guys but would always chicken out. That was a couple years ago. About 2 months ago I got on Grindr and I was determined to make it happen. I invited a guy over. Turns out he lived 3 minutes from out house so no time to overthink. He got there and we went into the bedroom. I was very nervous and he could tell. He asked if he could take his pants off i said of course. Looking at his chiseled body, beautiful skin and his big soft cock gave me butterflies. I slowly started stroking his cock feeling it get harder. Without even thinking I started sucking his dick. It felt so good in my mouth. Feeling him throb and get harder. He then told me bend over. The moment of truth. For my first time I wanted him to raw. He put the lube on and started slowly working his way into me. To say this was a magical moment would be an understatement. He started going harder and harder. His cock was rubbing against my prostate. It didn't take long and came one of the biggest loads I ever had. My whole buddy was shaking. Unfortunately he wasn't able to come. He left and my mind was racing. I was fiending for more! I hoped back on Grindr and had someone invite me over. I was nervous but I went. This guy greeted at his door naked and cock hard. It was beautiful. After sucking him for what felt like 30 minutes he bent me over. All the same I came again but this time he came in me as well. It was amazing. I left and went home and couldn't believe i got fucked by 2 BBCs in one night.

So here I am tonight waiting for my next experience and I cant wait. Hopefully will be very soon! So for anyone reading this and having a similar fantasy my advice is do it! - blacktowhite.net

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